Nope, it’s perfectly normal to want what you aren’t supposed to or can’t have.  My only advice is to stay single until you know you can be committed to one person, because if you’re dating you don’t want to be thinking about other people.  And as long as you’re single it’s okay to be a little confused with this type of situation, but it’s not wrong.

That’s the hard thing about groups like that; a lot of the time someone winds up hurt unintentionally.  If the other girl is taking it roughly and making remarks about it, this probably means she either likes you or Summer and you should maybe try and talk to her about it.  Just kinda be like, “Do you have a problem with Summer and I or something?  Because the last thing I want to do is upset you.”  If they’re honest and say they do, you need to think about how much you value your friendship with this person.  If you really do, you should probably back off of Summer for the sake of hurting your friend.  If you maybe aren’t as close with this person, try and keep happenings between you and Summer strictly between you and her and try and reduce any PDA.  Just tell her you don’t want to hurt your friend and she’ll understand.  Either way, you don’t want to be miserable so do what makes you happy but also be conscientious of your friend.

Depending on where you’re at with him right now, it’s basically your decision.  If you feel like you’re close to him to the point that you’re both comfortable around each other, understanding, and you’ve confirmed you have good chemistry and know each other well, tell him this and if you want to date then go for it.  Giving dating someone a second chance typically works for a lot of people because after spending some time apart, they realize how much they liked each other or new things about the other person so the second time around they’re more prepared and it lasts longer.  However, if you feel you’re not quite at this point then give it as much time as you want.  Just remember to keep him nearby by communicating with him and hanging out with him in person.  Remember that you want to be in a relationship with someone because you like them and they make you happy, not for telling others so they think differently of you.  Put yourself and your feelings before that!  And no problem, anytime (:

It’s understandable that you can’t face her; you must have wasted a lot of time thinking about her when you knew it was unrequited.  And in fact, that’s perfectly okay because the key to getting over someone and stopping thinking about them is to not have any communication with them whatsoever.  I know it hurts a lot, but no communication at this point is probably the best thing you could do.  It’ll also speed things up.    Try and distract yourself with other people and hang with friends to get your mind off of it.  With time and patience, it’ll get easier and before you know it you’ll never even think about her.

You’re right, relationships don’t only consist of words and if they did normally they don’t work out.  The problem is that you’re not feeling the chemistry, which you definitely need to be in a strong relationship.  Disregard everything it took for you to get together; think about the present and if you’re happy now.  If you’re not happy with him, first try discussing it with him because although you need reassurance, something about him or his attitude towards your relationship needs to change.  If it doesn’t, and you feel like you’d be better off without stressing over it, break up with him sooner than later.

I totally get you.  It’s like he’s talking about all the other girls…except you because he’s actually talking to you.  This could even mean that he thinks you’re the most attractive or likes you the most, and he could be talking to you of all people about these girls to get a reaction out of you.  Don’t over think it and don’t stress over it and if it bothers you try not to talk to him anymore, especially if it tends to put you in a bad mood.

Nope, I think deep down inside everyone likes something they really shouldn’t.  It’s totally normal and understandable you feel this way especially if you feel life is boring most of the time.

Well, what kind of relationship do you have with this kid?  Have you talked before, are you friends?  If not, and you think he’s attractive, you should make an effort to get to know him if you’d like.  Talk to him more but tell him you want to get to know him so he’s not misled into thinking that you want a relationship right off the bat.  If you don’t really want to take the time and do that then you should tell him so he doesn’t get his hopes up, but then again make sure that’s what you want to do because if you regret it later he might not want to put any effort into your friendship/getting to know you.  Just deeply consider it.  In my opinion it’s worth taking a chance getting to know him because you never know!  And if it turns out you don’t like him or you don’t have good chemistry with him, you’ll be able to tell him then and you can at least know you tried.

It sounds like you’ve got a lot of confidence, which is actually key to getting boys to notice you.  Most guys like outgoing, confident girls, and if you’re crazy and fun to be around, this will also be good.  Perhaps you just need to come out of your shell.  My recommendation is to take up any social opportunity you get.  Attend dances, hang out with friends, have them bring their boyfriends and their friends or their guy friends and hang out with them.  Just be social and get to know different guys.  Show them that you’re different (but don’t overwhelm them.)  Be yourself and be easygoing and you’ll be all good.  Personality is actually just as important as looks and you seem to have that down, so flaunt it!